The Real Reasons We Often Miss Signs of Autism in Adults
Current statistics show that approximately 2.2% of the American adult population is autistic. That might sound like a low number, but it equates to one in 45 adults. This means that if you work in an office space of over 50 people, there is a statistical chance that at least one person in your work group has autism. For many people, autism is a vague and hard-to-understand disorder, and even when faced with obvious signs of autism, it is hard to notice. Even the people who live with autism often fail to recognize the signs and get diagnosed late in life. The signs of autism are not always so easy to recognize, whether as an outsider or someone on the spectrum. Being able to recognize and interpret signs of autism helps you to be compassionate and validating of those on the spectrum, whether they are diagnosed or not. In many cases, the most effective way of supporting and accommodating autistic people is to adjust your communication style with them. Beyond that, there are things you can consider doing so that the autistic person in your life feels valued, validated, and catered to. Camouflaged and Unseen From school-going age, people are collectively prescribed a one-size-fits-all template of behavior to follow. This social code of conduct is not explicitly taught anywhere; it is as if we learn it through osmosis. However, it is as if people with a neurological developmental disorder don’t get the memo on how to act, what to do, and what not to do. Autistic people are frequently forced to learn the rules of social conduct by getting into trouble at school, getting disciplined at home, or getting bullied by peers. One of the major reasons we miss the signs of autism in people of any age is [...]
